Why Most Men Will Not Leave Their Wives For You

I just thought that I would answer an age old question for some women out there who are currently with married men, or who were with married men for a while, but never managed to hook them for good. Before some of you get mad and crazy over this posting just know that it is an opinion and observation from what I have talked with other guys/gals about concerning this issue. I feel that this is an important subject to cover as I begin to delve further into the issues plaguing relationships in the 21st century. So lets explore why most men will not leave their wives for the other woman.

It Is Cheaper To Keep Her

The most common reason why a man will stray and come back is because it is cheaper to make a relationship work out than to go through a costly divorce. This is very selfish on the part of the man to stick around for financial reasons, money is money. When you add up the cost of the divorce lawyer, wife gets half in most states, and child support payments per child one can become a little strapped for cash. I know a guy who take home a third or less of his monthly income after child support payments. No he wasn't trying to get away without paying for his kids. He is the rare case where daddy does anything for his kids and mommy wants a some extra cash so she sticks daddy with child support to get a guaranteed check even though dad was always payed for whatever the kids needed.

I Will Not Break Up My Family

Most married men with kids do not want to take their children through rough divorces. They would rather do whatever they need to do in the dark and not involve the kids in any way. We will move mountains to keep our casual encounters secret rather than loosing it all for a few moments of pleasure.

I Married My Wife For A Reason

Men don't just decide to marry a woman unless she has some qualities that he just cannot find anywhere else. A man has chosen a woman to be his wife because she has made his world a better place. She knows what he is thinking before he knows what he is thinking. She knows how to motivate him when he needs motivation. She knows just how to prepare his favorite meal. I can write an entire article about the special thing that that special woman does for her man to keep him coming home, but this is about the other woman. 

Why Did He Stray With Me?

The reason why that man has chosen to frequent your watering hole on a somewhat routine basis is because you let him visit your watering hole on a somewhat routine basis. It is very simple. Somewhere in that man's marriage his wife has become very complacent. She is too busy, too tired, too stressed, etc. to provide her man with the intimacy that he had come to know and love. Or, the other woman is a little more wild in bed than the old ball and chain and provides a much different and challenging experience. Whichever way you look at it the other woman's legs are open and the wifey's legs are not. Somewhere along the lines the wife fell off in her duties in the bedroom and the man had to go to another supplier who had a readily available source. Most men still love their wives, but they just need to get rid of a little tension. In no way was the other woman meant to be a replacement. You Are Not A Replacement! Sometimes the term "self-pleasure" just does not cut it. I am not justifying our actions, but I am just giving you an important look into the minds of men. If you think that your man will never do such a thing...think again. All he needs is the right time, the right person, and the opportunity. So women with husbands make sure that you spend some time together away from the normal hustle and bustle to make sure that the sex is where it should be. Each day that you deny your man an intimate moment could drive him straight into the awaiting arms of another woman. Other woman, just know that your role is being the other woman. That is all that you will ever be in most cases. A man's wife would have to trasnform into the devil in his eyes before he decides to ditch his first string player for the bench player.