We Are All Capable of Cheating Under The Right Conditions

So...Have you ever been one of those people who has said that they will never ever cheat on your significant other? Better yet, have you ever said that you would never do something and then find yourself doing what you said that you would never do? Well, I believe that everyone is capable of being in an extramarital relationship. Heck the more people that I talk to, the more that I notice that extramarital affairs are more common than most people would have you think. At some point or another we all fall. It may not be in the sex department but we all have weaknesses that leads us down the wrong path. For cheating, all we need is three little things and then we fall off of the horse. Have any of you gone through a fire safety course at work or as a child? If you have, firemen will tell you that there is a triangle that consists of three items that are needed before a fire occurs. Those three things are oxygen, a fuel source, and an ignition. When those three items come together you get are fire. If those three things come together under compression you get an explosion. So now lets look at the prerequisites for a sexual encounter. Two people must first have an attraction to each other. This could be a casual attraction. You meet someone at work who listens to your problems, they pay attention to you when your spouse does not, they appreciate you more than your spouse does, and they make you laugh all of the time and you can talk about anything whereas your spouse is the exact opposite. You know the person that I am talking about. There have been articles published that refer to these people as work spouses. The next thing that a person needs is a desire for a sexual encounter. Secretly you have grown such an attraction with your "work spouse" that you begin to imagine how a night alone with that person would turn out. What would it be like if you could just share a passionate kiss. One must remember that desire leads to temptation. Temptation leads you off the deep end. The last part of our triangle is opportunity. Some how you have managed to get some time alone with your "work spouse" whether it be a late night assignment at the office, a business trip that you both have to go on, you ride together to a company party, I'll let you set up your own scenario. You have a few drinks maybe, engage in a serious what if conversation, or manage to have a playful fight session when no one else is around. One thing leads to another, there is no chance of getting busted, and oh look your clothes and underwear have left your body. Imagine that...and you said that you would never get caught up in this situation.

This type of situation happens everyday. I wish that I could give some nice statistics to show how many people actually get caught up in extramarital affairs a year, but I am not a researcher who loves to show a bunch of numbers and charts. Just remember that cheating is as easy as 1-2-3. If you don't wish to get caught up in an affair then keep away from at least one of the prerequisites and you will be safe. It is best to stay away from the opportunity to cheat. You can have the attraction and desire, but as long as there is no opportunity there is no sex. Just think about it.